Skype call


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Our first Skype call was a sudden and a unexpected one as we didn’t decided to go for it. I was not nervous neither excited about it. We decided to have a call and see how it does and when I called him it was busy and he in ten minutes he lied to me about his call unable to network due to network issues. I did not oppose as I was least interested but I knew he lied about it which was so not cool in the first meet. He was scared to do the video call due to his funny haircut and didn’t want to be rejected because of that, but frankly speaking hairs or no hair did not matter to me much as they grow but the person with value and morals be the same. Though we had nothing as such to talk about still manage to talk for more than an hour I suppose, after the call I found it to be positive one but that didn’t really made me think about him all day. Anyway it was a sweet conversation. I loved it.



Knowing Him


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He is a good person by heart, that’s what I noticed first. During his first talks I could make out he doesn’t pretend to be someone who he isn’t. I have met many guys and seen they always tend to test me with some or other ways but this Z (let’s give him a name Z) never tried to test me with anything.

He is kind by heart and does understand other people. He listens to people very carefully, tries to understand the person situation by being in his/her shoes and then react on the situation. He is very careful with his words which are one thing I lack. I am pretty straight forward and sometimes don’t think twice before speaking but he does. He is very careful when he talks to others, I noticed this when he talked with my parent’s.

So far he is kind by heart, a good listener, careful with his words, patient and hey how can I forget the most important thing he jokes around so much! God!! It’s so hard at times to control it.

Does he think he is funny? As he tries to be funny and that is so weird sometimes as I never get his jokes, they are so poorly constructed and the most annoying part is when he jokes around in serious matter by giving it a light environment which is so not good with me, I hate when this happens, where I expect him to say things which are true from his end but he end up joking. In this situation I always get confused as I don’t understand what is true or joke.

I like his height, damn I am always crazy for guys who have good height and glad he has one. He is 5.11 which is way good as till now hardly met anyone with good height.

One most important thing I like is I can be myself and I never tried to pretend what I am not. He got to know my nature from the start which was a positive point for both of us as normally in arranged marriage it happens like people show their true colours after few months.

These are things I know about him so far and will update once I know more about him.

– Manu

Testing his patience!


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I truly never intend to test his patience it just happen that I could see he putting loads of efforts to talk to me, my replies were really short and to the point where I never pretend to be sweet neither sour. I was always straight forward and formal with him and I guess at least he liked me being formal and straight to the point.

My replies were like dead end conversation where as he always used to come up with some lame jokes which I took seriously and did got angry at him.  I couldn’t somehow convey that those are really not working for me and I don’t like such jokes.

I had deleted his number couple of times thinking this won’t work between us. But I really don’t know how he managed to stay in touch with me. I was busy with mom’s health issues those days so did not talk much to him and this went on for a week or two.

The way he tried to have a conversation with me though I was least interested and bothered, showed his patience. He was patient enough to bear my attitude which was not that bad though, (if I was in his place wouldn’t have entertain anyone so much, but I know he is different.)

Those two weeks were more like formal conversations where used to ask for how are you doing? What are your qualifications? Future plans and so on. I even bear his never ending jokes which I consider it to be true.

I am glad he was patient enough to talk to me and that made us talk more once we past that phase.


Unexpected Alliance


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I always had the habit of taking breaks and then again make a fresh start to talk to guys for marriage purpose.

Sometimes it did make me frustrate and think why are the good guys or why isn’t it working with anyone? Is anyone serious for marriage or just here for to pass their time by gaining experience to talk to different females and meeting them?

Here I again completely thought about taking a break from this marriage talk and concentrate on my career. I recently had a talk and didn’t work out with him as well so I had completely decided to stop talking to guys from overseas as I was convinced with the fact I will be marrying in my own town and not going to settle anywhere outside India.

I was browsing the profile for the last time to accept and reject guys and clean up the requests as I had decided to take a break again! That’s when just for sake I accepted this guy’s request thinking what’s wrong in accepting even though I know I am not going to talk and nothing is going to work out anyway. I went back to usual schedule of mine.

After few days I got a messaged on Facebook from the same guy and here I am thinking oh great! He found me and now I have to talk to him. He was pretty decent in his talks though I was least bothered about judging him right away.

We did exchanged numbers and here the chat session went to Whatsapp where I hardly used to be online those days and did not take any effort to talk to this guy.

This was the unexpected alliance that came into my life, when I expected the least of anything and now I am going to wedlock with this guy and I am glad we did talk to each other and gave a shot. And now he is the reason that inspired me to share my journey to all with this blog.  I really hope to share all the events that taken in my life after he being a part of me.

– Manu